What "executive function" means at this age
Think of executive function as your baby’s early “brain manager.” It helps them notice what matters, remember simple patterns, and begin to pause before reacting. In the first year and a half, these skills grow through short, playful back-and-forth moments with you.
Play ideas that work
- Lap games with a gentle surprise
Peekaboo and bouncy rhymes help babies learn predictable patterns. Your baby practices waiting, watching, and then enjoying the reveal. Keep it brief and happy. - Hiding and finding
Hide a toy under a cloth and encourage your baby to look. Later, move it under a second cup or spin a lazy Susan with cups to track. This grows working memory in a concrete, fun way. - Copycat moments
Make a simple motion like a wave or clap. Pause so your baby can try it too. As they improve, add one more step. These turn-taking patterns practice attention and remembering the sequence. - Fingerplays and little songs
Short songs with hand motions such as “Open, Shut Them” build memory for a series of actions. Go slowly and celebrate any attempt to imitate. - Talk about what you both see
Follow your baby’s gaze and name the object or action. This stretches attention and builds language that supports future self-control. Bilingual talk counts too.
Sensory-friendly tips
- Keep volume low and lighting soft.
- Offer predictable starts and stops, and watch for cues to take a break.
- Use favorite textures or toys as comfort anchors during new games.
When to reach out
If your baby rarely notices faces or voices, has very limited eye contact, or shows little interest in back-and-forth play, a consult can help you plan next steps.
References: The baby activities above are adapted from the Center on the Developing Child’s guides on lap games, hiding games, imitation, fingerplays, and early conversations.
