What’s growing now
Preschoolers rapidly expand self-regulation. They can plan short play scenes, follow simple rules with fewer reminders, and switch between ideas with support. Your goal is to give structure, then step back as they’re ready.
Play ideas that work
- High-level pretend play
Set up a simple scene like “vet clinic.” Add a few props, agree on roles, and draw a quick play plan together. Planning before acting practices inhibition and keeps the play on track. - Make the props together
Turn a paper towel tube into a “cast” or a box into a “stove.” Repurposing everyday items grows flexible thinking and persistence. - Storytelling circle
One child starts a story, the next adds a line, and so on. Children must listen, hold the plot in mind, and add a piece that fits. Act the story out when you are done. - Songs and movement challenges
Freeze in a shape on cue, move fast then slow, or try backward-counting songs. These match actions to rhythm and words which strengthens attention and working memory. - Sorting by new rules and simple cooking
Switch from sorting by color to sorting by shape, or play bingo with “opposites.” Cooking adds waiting, counting, and following steps.
Sensory-friendly tips
- Offer clear visual cues such as stick-figure freeze cards.
- Keep groups small, with quiet corners available.
- Model flexible thinking: “This hat can be a chef hat or a train hat.”
When to reach out
If pretend play is very limited, your child cannot tolerate role changes, or group songs lead to meltdowns even with strong support, we can help adapt the environment and the plan.
References: Activities adapted from the Center on the Developing Child’s preschool guides on imaginary play, storytelling, movement songs, and flexible sorting.